IT'S NOT TRUE THAT LIFE IS JUST ONE DAMN THING AFTER ANOTHER. IT'S THE SAME DAMN THING OVER AND OVER . (Edna St. Vincent Millay). First and foremost: Life is difficult. And we all bring to it our personal distortions, anxieties and depressive feelings. In over 30 years of working with individuals and couples, and as the former Dean of Training at probably the largest analytic institute in the...